New Instagram Message Settings for Teens

With social media constantly changing, META (the company behind Facebook and Instagram) has taken a big step to keep teens safe. They tightened the messaging settings to help prevent young people from ending up in bad situations or getting unwanted messages from strangers. As a parent who also uses social media a lot, I’ve totally noticed a difference. So, let’s break down what these New Instagram Message Settings are and how they can make teens’ online life way better.

New Instagram Message Settings

Setting Boundaries: The New Message Controls

The other day, my daughter nearly threw her phone across the room. “Mom, this creepy guy keeps leaving me a message on Instagram!” I totally get it. Social media can be useful, but it can also be unsafe for teens. Fortunately, Meta just released an update that allows teens to control who he can directly message, which I think is a huge success.

  1. Message Requests: Previously, anyone could send a direct message to a teen’s account. Now, with the new message request feature, teens have more control. They can choose to accept or ignore messages from people they don’t follow. This simple change empowers teens to filter out unwanted communication.
  2. Time limits: Teens can now limit how much time they want to spend on Instagram and Facebook. As a parent, I appreciate this aspect. It promotes healthy screen time and prevents scrolling sessions that lead to late night sleep deprivation.
  3. Restricted Mode: Restricted mode allows teens to limit interactions with strangers. When enabled, it restricts messages from accounts that don’t meet certain criteria (like age or mutual connections). It’s like a digital bouncer at the entrance to their inbox.

My Daughter’s Experience

“Mom, I used the restricted mode, and it’s amazing!” My daughter’s enthusiasm surprised me. She shared how she’d received fewer unsolicited messages and felt more in control. As a parent, I felt relieved knowing she had tools to navigate the digital world responsibly.

One evening, she excitedly showed me a message request from a classmate. She accepted it, and they chatted about homework. But when a stranger messaged her, she hesitated. “Should I accept this?” she asked. We discussed boundaries, privacy, and the importance of being cautious online. The new settings provided a framework for our conversation.

Conclusion

Meta is doing a great job focusing on teen safety. As parents, we can help our teens make the most of these features. So, next time your teen grumbles about a message, remind them: “You’re in control. Use those settings!”